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Saturday, July 4, 2009

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Why won't women, or for that matter, girls, kiss on a first date?

A survey of whether Japanese women may feel inclined to decline a kiss on a first date reveals some coy feminine tactics at play, with the most common response, “try to modestly refuse him once” perhaps being a near universal female stratagem…

The survey itself posed the question “how would you respond if a guy tried to kiss you on a first date?” to NicoNico Douga’s large and youthful female population in a popular women’s programme aired regularly on the site. In 200 seconds some 18,000 responses were gathered, and the results are instructive.

The most common response, with 46.3% of the vote, was “try modestly refusing him once,” demonstrating perhaps that these ladies are less interested in effete and unassertive males than they are sometimes portrayed as being.

After this came the more submissive “meekly let him” with 31.6%, although it should probably be thought that the question presupposes the woman wants the man to kiss her in the first place.

The dread “refuse him” comes in with only 19%, indicating perhaps that fast movement may not go unrewarded.

Interpreting these results is of course a minefield unto itself; the editor of a male dating support site gives his interpretation: “The woman wants to test whether the man is really serious, and she is concerned about being thought an ‘easy’ girl,” which does indeed sound a universal female tactic.

However, where Japan is concerned there seems to be a more fundamental issue: are these assertive men, ready to press for a kiss, even that common anymore? The editor once more sheds some light on this:

“The impression I get from managing this site is that men are becoming more and more cowardly about romance.

They worry a great deal about what to do if they are turned down, and whether they can ever manage a romance a second time.

In these cases it really is important to act assertively, it’s not like you’ll die if you are rejected. Rather than thinking it’s hopeless and being frightened, it is a case of acting.”
Via J-Cast.

There seems to be some contradiction between the manliness desired by women and the effete manners and apparel they apparently prize, though it seems most are unamimous in considering one factor before anything else…

Education matters, or teachers for that matter, are getting out of hand nowadays....
A school teacher who distributed a DVD containing her home made sex videos to her own pupils has been mortified by the ordeal of trying to chase down the copies before her reputation was irretrievably besmirched, though sadly for her it appears her impromptu surprise sex education programme worked wonders…

The lady, Crystal Defanti, a teacher at the California elementary school in question, compiled a DVD of the year’s memorable events for distribution to pupils, and soon the DVDs were in the hands of parents.

However, soon after the DVDs reached parents and children it became apparent that she had included an unexpected extra in the form of her private sex videos, which apparently cut in after a few minutes.

The intimate video provided some unscheduled sex education, as one anonymous parent attested:

“It goes from my son, straight to her on the couch. My son’s reaction was, ‘Dad, is that Ms. Defanti?’

We were up till midnight doing the ‘birds and the bees.’”
The next day the distraught teacher featured in the video tearfully called parents and begged them to help stop any more children being exposed to the evils of sex, specifically her own.

School authorities are said to be considering disciplinary measures, but as the teacher is much liked (perhaps more so after this) and respected, she is unlikely to be dismissed.

At least some parents are said to be wondering how their children could cope with the knowledge of such an unnatural and hideous thing as sex.

Via CBS.

Such “unfortunate” events perhaps do more damage to the success of parents in keeping their children in the dark about natural bodily functions than they do to the inquisitive children themselves…

And now, for weird pics from japan......For those who watch or read Neon Genesis Evangelion......have a look.

If you want proof humans are very unoriginal, here you are.

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